Finding out your type means taking the guesswork out of handling, styling, and treating hair.

By Maui V. Reyes for Yahoo! Southeast Asia

It seems that if you're born with straight hair, you lust after wavy locks. And if you're a kinky-haired babe, you dream of getting straight, tamed tresses. Yes, it's true—the grass is always greener on the other side of your salon chair.


But does that mean you have to change your hair texture? While many women complain that having curly hair can be a pain, the cause of such mess could be the inadequate knowledge of how to work with the kind of hair you were born with. Because believe us when we say that it doesn't matter what your hair texture is—straight, curly, thin, or thick—everyone has bad hair days, and most of them happen because we don't know how to take care of our hair well.


Emmy-award winner and hairstylist Andrew Walker developed a classification system of different hair types to take the guesswork out of handling, styling, and treating hair. Read on to find out how to tame your tresses, according to your hair type.

Type 1: Silky straight
It's the hair type most Asians are known for: silky smooth, straight hair that reflects the sun. It seems to be the most resilient type, and if you've ever tried working with a curling iron, you'll know that it's impossible to keep curls with this hair texture. This hair type reflects the most sheen, thanks to its oily texture—which is because oil from the scalp can work its way to the ends without being interfered by curls.


How to give it volume: Unfortunately for straight-haired sisters, their locks lack volume. Because there aren't any curls or waves to take up space on their crowns, straight-haired women feel their hair always lie flat and dull. If you feel like you're stuck in this rut, add some volume by applying a root-lifter product (such as a volumizing mousse) at the roots right after washing your hair. Then, turn your hair upside down, and blow-dry until it's a bit damp. Finish off by brushing from the roots with a round brush, to "lift" up hair.

Type 2: Wavy
Neither super straight nor very curly, Type 2 hair has S-curls that every Victoria Secret supermodel seems to sport nowadays. This unusual hair type can further be classified into three types: fine, thin hair, which is easy to handle and style; medium-textured type; and the thick and coarse wavy hair. The last two types have a tendency to get frizzy.


How to tame frizz: You might want to use anti-frizz products to tame frizz. Your hair can also be easily weighed down by styling products, so use lighter formulas like mousses and sprays. You might also want to shampoo every other day, since too much shampooing can make your hair dry and cause it to become even more frizzy!

Type 3: Curly
Type 3 hair may look straight when wet. But as it dries, you'll notice it slowly going back to its curly state. It has a lot of body and bounce, and can easily be styled while in its natural state. In fact, healthy Type 3 hair is shiny, with smooth curls and strong elasticity. The curls are beautifully well-defined and springy. They are also climate-dependent, and damage-prone.


Too much humidity can cause curly hair to frizz, making you look like you stuck your finger in an electric socket. Plus, oil isn't able to reach the ends of your hair, with curls obstructing the way…this leaves you with dry hair.


How to keep the frizz down: Try to keep frizz down to a minimum by shampooing once or twice a week—more than that could strip your hair of its natural oils, leaving it dry and prone to breakage. Use emollient-rich shampoos and conditioners, and consider running a wide-toothed comb through your hair when applying conditioner for even distribution. Apply a leave-on conditioner after rinsing your hair, and never, ever rub your hair with a towel—the friction will only cause more hair damage and frizz.


Air-dry your hair and apply an anti-frizz serum and moisturizing gel while hair is still damp. If you're looking at using hair styling products, keep them to a minimum, often giving your hair a "time-out" in between: styling products can deplete hair of natural oils.
(More tips on how to learn to love and live with your curls)

Type 4: Kinky
Think Macy Gray's 'fro is super tough? Think again. Type 4 hair, or kinky hair, may look super strong and durable, but it's actually the most fragile type of hair. This type of hair looks wiry, but each tightly-coiled strand has fewer cuticle layers, making it more prone to damage than any other hair type. It's also the driest hair type.


Many people think kinky hair doesn't grow as fast as straight or wavy hair, but it actually grows at the same rate…but since it's so much more drier, hair tends to be prone to breakage, making it seem like it didn't grow. Plus, Type 4 hair shrinks up to 75% of its actual hair length, making it look like it hasn't been growing in length!


How to fight dryness and breakage: Type 4 hair is fine and fragile, so treat it with as much care as you would a super expensive cashmere sweater: cleanse and detangle softly, and avoid harsh chemicals! Use a creamy, sulfate-free moisturizing cleanser on your hair once a week (washing your hair more than once a week will strip it of natural oils) followed by a super hydrating conditioner. Apply a leave-on conditioner to make detangling easier, and apply pomade to seal in moisture. Avoid using mineral oil, petrolatum oils, and heavy waxes—these will only weigh down your hair.

If you want to style your hair, pick styling butters that have conditioners and moisturizers. Detangle your hair with a special detangling brush, since combs and brushes will only cause more tangles and could break your hair. Lastly, reduce tangles by sleeping on a satin pillow or using a satin head wrap.

source: http://ph.she.yahoo.com/blogs/teen-life/hair-type-025326015.html

Drinking water

While we are probably all familiar with the advice to drink eight glasses of water a day, more recent research has suggested that there is actually no scientific evidence supporting this recommendation and that drinking excessive amounts of water can actually be dangerous by lowering the concentration of salt in your blood. Health-conscious water drinkers should also be wary of the trend for drinking bottled water, as studies have suggested that the chemicals (phthalates) from plastic bottles can leach into water and disrupt hormone levels.

Talking over your problems


Talking through your problems can be a great way to gain some perspective and get things off your chest. However, studies have suggested that, after a certain point, rehashing and dwelling on problems can actually be bad for your health. According to research, revisiting and analyzing the same problems with friends (“co-rumination”) can lead to anxiety, stress disorders and depression. Next time a problem arises, by all means talk it over with a friend, but try to focus on problem-solving rather than simply dwelling on the issue.

Sipping on mocktails


You may think that by swapping cocktails for mocktails you are doing your health a favour, but this may not actually be the case. While cutting down on alcohol is beneficial for your wellbeing, mocktails are often high in refined sugar which research suggests is just as damaging and addictive as alcohol. For a safer swap and a shot of nutrients, make sure you stick to mocktails made from pure fruit juices instead of those made from syrups.


Early morning workouts


While a daily workout is great for your health, studies suggest that getting up for early morning exercise may not be as ideal as it seems. A study by a researcher from Brunel University, Middlesex, found that heavy training sessions early in the morning can compromise the immune system and put athletes at increased risk of bacterial and viral infection. While a morning jog or gentle exercise session is unlikely to put you at risk, it may be better to save heavier workouts for later in the day.

Taking nutritional supplements


We all know that vitamins are good for us, but relying on nutritional supplements can actually be bad for your health. Separate studies have shown that high doses of vitamin supplements including iron, magnesium and vitamin B6 raise the death rate of older women, while taking vitamin E can increase men’s risk of prostate cancer. While certain people may be required to take vitamins (those with low levels of vitamin D, for example, or vegans who may be deficient in vitamin B12), for most people a better approach is to opt for a varied diet full of fruit and vegetables which will give you all the nutrients you need.

Slathering on sunscreen


Official advice for many years has warned about the dangers of skin cancer, causing many of us to take measures to cover up in the sun at all times. However, while it is extremely important to protect your skin, experts have more recently advised that little and frequent sun exposure is good for us, preventing vitamin D deficiency, which can lead to rickets, osteomalacia and depression. Official advice in the UK, where rickets has recently made a comeback, is to spend 10 minutes in the midday sun without sunblock each day before covering skin up.

Switching to low fat foods


When getting started in healthy eating, it is tempting to opt for low fat foods in order to help keep off excess pounds. However, cutting out ‘good’ fats such as omega-3 fatty acids could be detrimental to your health. Omega-3 fatty acids, found in oily fish, walnuts and flaxseeds, not only help to keep skin supple and wrinkle-free, they are also essential for good brain and heart health and can help prevent arthritis.

Source: http://ph.she.yahoo.com/7-good-habits-bad-health-090000188.html

7 specific foods that will also help you control your cravings. (And then at the end of this article I have a surprising cravings buster for you to try.)

This is important because, let’s face it, you will NEVER be able to stick to any eating program if cravings are driving you CRAZY. Here are my top food choices:

#1 Avocados

Yup, that’s right, a fatty food. But this fat is a good fat and these are loaded with two vital nutrients that will quickly kill belly fat: fiber and monounsaturated fats. These little suckers keep you full for hours.

#2 Nut Butters

Peanut butter and almond butter are loaded with monounsatured fats that can stave off hunger and provide valuable nutrition. Just be sure that it’s natural nut butter because the regular grocery store versions are filled with sugar and trans fats.

#3 Eggs

Need a quick breakfast solution? Look no further than to eggs. Loaded with protein, vitamin B6, V12, A, D, E, and K, as well as folate, choline, lutein, calcium, iron, phosphorus, zinc, and omega-3 fatty acids, you simply cannot go wrong. Choose free range chickens whenever possible and the nutritional benefits will be amplified.

#4 Dark Chocolate

More good news. That chocolate craving that you have, it too can be satisfied. Dark chocolate is actually a powerful source of antioxidants and it contains a natural “fat burner” called theobromine that will increase the rate of fat burning that takes place in the body. Stick to a few squares after a healthy meal to crush those chocolate cravings.

#5 Oatmeal

Another great breakfast food you can’t go wrong with. If you want to cure the mid-morning craving attack, start your day off with oats. Oats are a very good source of wholesome fiber and contain no sugar at all so they will keep your blood sugar levels on a nice even keel.

Mix in a little cinnamon for further blood sugar control support and to reduce belly fat and you’ve got a perfect way to start your day.

#6 Berries

Black berries and raspberries provide a great way to settle down sugar cravings. What’s more, their high fiber content keeps you feeling full while the antioxidants and vitamins improve your health.

#7 Wild Salmon

Last but not least, don’t forget about salmon. Another food that’s jam packed with protein and healthy omega fatty acids and that will help squash those cravings and keep your blood sugar balance in check. Eat this in the evening with some wholesome vegetables and you can kiss your cravings good bye for the night.

That’s 7 foods right there, but don’t forget about veggies and beans. Both are backed with nutrition and fiber to keep you full and satisfied.

Eating more of these foods during your day will help eliminate cravings, but if you want an ever faster and easier way to crush cravings and fight fat, then do this…

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Hope you enjoyed these tips!

Coach Josh

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About 90% of Americans shampoo daily. One hundred years ago, people only washed their hair monthly, and in the 1950s, it was customary for women to have their hair washed and set once a week at the salon. 

A clean head of hair feels fresh and smells great but over-washing can turn one's healthy locks into a pile of straw. The average person's hair grows less than half an inch per month so long strands that have been subjected to a lot of shampooing (as well as chemical treatments, blow drying, and the elements), tend to get dried out and dull at the ends and even break off. Dirtier hair-gasp-also holds a style better.

How often you need to shampoo depends on how oily your scalp is and your hair's texture. Oil-known as sebum-travels more easily down smooth, straight hair, making it look greasier faster. Sounds a little gross, but sebum helps moisturize and waterproof the hair shaft. This is one reason why curly or coarse hair is drier. When you wash every day, you typically strip off this natural moisturizer and then have to slather it back on in the form of commercial conditioner.

Joe Murray, owner of Hale Organic Salon in New York City, tells Yahoo! Shine that shampooing a couple of times a week is plenty. "If you can't stand a being a little oily, then coat your wet hair with conditioner up to the ears to protect it and then just wash the scalp." On gym days, try simply rinsing with water instead of shampooing and finish with a light conditioner to detangle. Another tip Murray offers is to "spot clean around the hairline with a little dry shampoo. It will also help stretch the time between blow outs."

Shampooing does stimulate the scalp, which brings blood flow and healthy nutrients to the hair follicles. As an alternative, Murray is a fan of a gentle daily scalp massage and regular brushing with a good quality hairbrush.

People with flaky scalps may be inclined to shampoo frequently, but dermatologist and spokesperson for the American Academy of Dermatology, Nia Terezakis, MD says this can actually exacerbate the problem. "When you have a flaky scalp its not dirty, its dandruff or a form of psoriasis," she explains to Yahoo! Shine. "Use a shampoo formulated for dandruff and let it sit on your scalp for 20 seconds before rinsing." You can follow up with a separate shampoo and conditioner of your choice, "But don't scrub," she advises. "It will flake even more." 

When you choose a shampoo, Terezakis says to pick a product that is made for your specific hair type whether it be oily, dry, limp, curly, etc. "Companies spend a lot of money on cosmetic chemists and different products really do work." One exception: "Baby shampoos aren't necessarily gentle on adult hair," she warns. "They are made because babies squirm. They don't sting the eyes but they can be drying."

If you are used to washing your hair daily, it can take a few weeks to get used to a new routine. You may be over producing sebum to compensate for stripping the scalp. Gradually increase the days between shampooing and see if your hair becomes healthier and takes more time to appear dirty as a result.


Source: http://shine.yahoo.com/beauty/often-wash-hair-222900620.html

By Kevin Armento for HowAboutWe  

Single on Valentine's Day...'nuff said? There are all kinds of guides out there about how to take your mind off it, or ice cream away the dread, or scrounge up a last-minute date at all costs.

But you know what's better than trying to suppress any and every reminder that you're single? Doing things you might actually enjoy! Here are five to consider: 

1. Sublimate!
Look, you're feeling that urge more than ever to be coupled, to lay in bed with someone, maybe even to get knocked up - so take those natural impulses and exorcise them elsewhere, in a productive way. That "treat yourself to a night in" advice doesn't work unless you actually accomplish something. Paint a room you've been putting off, clean out the attic, finish the novel that's been on your nightstand for three months. The cathartic chemical charge you'll get from crossing something off a list will be so much better than just wallowing.

2. Ladle out a dinner for people who aren't even thinking about V-Day.
I know it's easy to just skip right past this one, but if you really want to put your troubles in perspective and feel grateful on V-Day for what you do have, go down to a soup kitchen and hang with some homeless folks. They aren't complaining about how they haven't found Mr. or Ms. Right yet. And as you're dishing out a warm February meal for them, ask to hear some good Valentines Day stories - guarantee it'll make your night. 

3. Platonic friend adventure.
I'm very intentionally not saying "date" here, because I've seen too many people get depressed by a platonic date on V-Day. Pick a fellow single friend and go do something you've never done before, or something you've both been meaning to do (train to Coney Island? Zipcar to the birthplace of your favorite author?). And try to make it as anti-Valentine's as possible, which means no dinner in a fancy restaurant and no candles.

4. Sort-of seeing someone?
Do a low-key V-day. Just because you've only been on two dates doesn't mean you can't take part in some Valentine-ish festivities. Be the one who's up-front and say "Hey, I know we've only been on two dates, and I'm not asking you to be my Valentine. But want to go to a wine bar or something anyway?" It doesn't have to be a high-stakes night. I'm sorry, but Serious Couples do not have a monopoly on the official romance holiday. 

5. Do the anti-V-Day.
For the less monogamous among us, consider a playful twist on the usual chocolate and dress-up. Arrange a rendezvous with a booty call of choice, and celebrate the night of romance in your own special way. Again, this is not just a night for couples!

What do you think is the best way to spend Valentine's day when you're flying solo? 

By Nikki Metzgar for HowAboutWe 

Just like mom always gets upset on Christmas Day because she's anxious about cooking a feast for 10, Valentine's Day can be a pressure cooker for couples -- especially when expectations are not managed. He's feeling crushed by the burden of having to plan the most romantic date ever; she secretly doesn't like surprises. Here are four strategies for making sure everyone is happy, feeling loved and in the mood. 

1. Plan the date together. Anticipating something fun is often the best part, so if you're both part of the planning process then you can look forward to the date equally. No one will feel single-handedly responsible for making things happen, there will be no unpleasant surprises and you can be completely honest about preferring Chinese takeout and some time in the hot tub over making reservations and dressing up for a fancy dinner. Or if the fancy dinner is your thing, you can get excited looking at online menus together for some added bonding time.

2. Double date. Whether you're going to the trendiest new restaurant or just making spaghetti at home, including friends increases the celebration factor. Opening a bottle of wine with old friends downgrades the event from "a big deal" to just a fun night. Make sure you're on the same page with your date before inviting extras though -- your boyfriend might really be looking forward to some alone time but not saying so. 

3. Set a low price ceiling on gifts. Even if you're being totally honest about not wanting to exchange gifts for Valentine's Day, doubt can start to sneak in about whether your partner is being completely honest. If you start to suspect that your cutie does want a gift -- or is getting you one and you want to reciprocate -- just declare a gift exchange and get it over with. Turn it into a game by setting a $5 or $10 limit and see who can find the weirdest or tastiest or biggest gift at the store. Or decide that you're going to find something you can do together -- buy a magazine and do the quizzes together, pick a board game or badminton set or buy a gift certificate to a favorite coffeeshop.

4. Stay in the comfort zone. Okay, so your date definitely wants a nice dinner and some out-of-the-ordinary romance. There are still ways to meet high expectations without freaking out, which is the number one way to ruin a nice date. If you can't read a French menu without panicking, don't go near it. Even though ice skating at the park sounds really adorable, a broken arm and your disappointed competitive side isn't. Above all, remember that if you're in a good mood, your date will be in a good mood, so don't spend more money than you're comfortable with and don't let lost reservations ruin the evening

By Nikki Metzgar for HowAboutWe 

Valentine's Day is coming -- and store aisles (and restaurant ads) are practically shouting at you that heart-shaped boxes of chocolate and expensive roast duck dinners for two are the components of a romantic evening. We all know that's not true for everyone, but now comes the hard part-actually figuring out what is romantic in time for your Valentine's Day date.

Keep things personalized 
In other words, be thoughtful. The most romantic thing you can do is show that you know the person you're in a relationship with and act on that knowledge. Maybe the best night your girlfriend could dream of is to get drunk on margaritas and go home for sex. So why take her for a steak dinner? Maybe he loves cooking, and you don't care for it, but you spring for the sushi making class anyway. A dozen red roses might be romantic in Hollywood, but it wont mean a thing to the girl who loves lilies, just like an expensive watch won't woo the guy who doesn't like to wear one. 

Related: Our Complete Guide to Valentine's Day

Take charge 
Planning the date together is a great way to create more bonding time and to make sure everyone's expectations are met. But if you haven't agreed to do that, the last thing you want to do is wait until the last minute and ask, "What do you want to do tonight?" Taking charge and having a plan means that you've put some thought into it. Even if it's just an out of the way snow cone shack or your favorite BYOB Vietnamese restaurant, it takes the burden off the other person to come up with something fun to do and it reveals a little more about you. 

Related: 4 Ways to Plan a Pressure-Free Valentine's Day

Remember that less is more 
More stuff isn't necessary more romantic. You could stuff 100 pens into a vase for your girlfriend who's a writer, or ship 20 boxes of her favorite cookie to her apartment, but what is she really going to do with that? Lots of gifts doesn't signify a lot more love-in fact, it sometimes means the opposite-and it can pressure her to show gratitude in a way she isn't comfortable with. A date doesn't have to have five elaborate parts and a horse-drawn carriage to make an impact. Write a heart-felt note, buy the one ice cream sundae (better for sharing) and light only one candle, if you have to have candles at all. 

Related: 4 Signs You're Doing "The Crazy Girl Thing"

Nikki Metzgar is a writer from Texas. She thinks the best first dates don't include sit down dinners, but can't help but be impressed by flowers.

By YourTango.com | Love + Sex 

Attracting a man is not rocket science. Attracting the RIGHT one however can be a little trickier. 

1. Be a Piggy for Your Pleasure 

Men consistently confide what attracts them to a woman is her ability to receive pleasurable experiences. Sadly, most modern women have taken ON doing so much, they're unhappy and burnt out- unwittingly repelling potential mates. If this is you, create some down time this weekend and make a list of what clearly brings you joy AND what no longer brings you joy in your life. Proceed to Step 2. 

2. Create Your Want List and Publish It 

After assessing your list, see what you're willing to delete for good and send it on its merry way. Then, all that you still want to have, but don't necessarily have a desire to produce for yourself anymore, goes on your Want List. On a fresh page, write at the top: (Your Name) _______'s Want List and list out all the things you would love to have, but don't want to produce for yourself. Then, Post it on your fridge (not stuffed in a drawer!) Proceed to Step 3. 

3. Ask and You WILL Receive 

If you really want to show the Universe you mean business, take ONE item from your Want List and ask a man in your life (neighbor/friend/family member) to produce it for you. Maybe you need a toaster fixed, your walk shoveled or you want a male with you to shop for a new car. Whatever it is, pick a guy you feel comfortable asking and go for it! 

This exercise serves 2 purposes. First, eliminating aspects of your life that no longer bring you joy will create space for something better to come in (like a man!) Secondly, getting in the habit of asking men to do things for you instantly activates the energy of RECEIVING - behavior that is very attractive to men. 

Continue to take at least one item from your list every week and assign it to a man in your life. Why do I want you to post it on your fridge? You never know who will be coming over who will want to produce something for you! 

Written by Kim Sarrasin for YourTango.com.  

Hi,
Today I'm going to teach you guys how to "Create a floating twitter widget for your tumblr" just like mine.

All you have to do is to copy/paste this code:

For CSS: anywhere before the </style>

Note: Change the float to left and the right to left if you want to see it on the left side e.g. float: left; and left: 20px; Feel free to edit the padding top and right for your satisfaction.

For HTML: inside the <body></body>

This is how it looks like when done:

Here we go,
First log in to Twitter.
Now go here Twitter Widget to get your twitter widget code.

Click "My Website" tab

Choose "Profile Widget".

Enter your twitter Username on "Settings" tab.
Leave the "Preferences" tab.
On "Appearances" edit your best colors for your widget.
On "Dimensions" set your preferred width and height.

Click Finish & Grab Code then copy the code. Replace the <YOUR TWITTER WIDGET CODE HERE> on the above HTML code.

Copy the codes you've created then Log in to Tumblr. Click customize appearance then click Edit Html.
Paste the CSS code example:

Paste the HTML code example:

Then click Update Preview, Save, and Close. We're done!! Advance Happy Valentines everyone :)

Follow me on Twitter @cherlugossi and on Tumblr Sari-sari for questions regarding this article.